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โ€” @ariesbabe.x, I don't everyone gets a second chance but I don't believe In third chances and for such not more than third chances. Each situation is different but if a woman or a man does it more than once clearly they don't care about the one they are cheating on

โ€” I do. They dont have enough respect not to do it once. If i am capable of being faithful then so are you. No respect = no trust =No relationship = No love. Gotta respect someone in order to love them.

โ€” I think it depends on what the type of cheating it was. Was it a one time, possibly drunken mistake? Emotional cheating? Over a long period of time accompanied by excessive lies? A one time mistake I could forgive; emotional, long-lasting, or many lies, I'd be hurt, and while forgiveness may be possible (slim chance though), trust would be limited for a while.

โ€” ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿป I do. They do it once, theyโ€™ll do it again. Now, if they cheated in past relationships maybe not. But if the person cheated on me I know heโ€™ll do it again.

โ€” To me it depends on the person & situation. But personally second chances is all people get with me. Once they ruin that second chance theyโ€™re cut out of my life. I know people who will always be unfaithful & then some who have done it once & never again. If they show guilt, come clean & then do everything the other person has listed for them to change & gain trust back, I think it can be worked out.

โ€” I'm with @t143

โ€” I think it depends. If my spouse went out and had sex with somebody else then, I wouldn't be able to forgive him because how could someone do that to the person they love? They would more than likely do it again. ๐Ÿ˜”